Conscious parenting is not about permissiveness or coddling. Instead, it involves guiding and teaching children with intention, respect, healthy boundaries, and kindness.
Expectations and boundaries provide a sense of safety and are deeply rooted in family values. It is possible to find the right balance between being firm and kind when communicating rules and expectations to children.
Here are a few tips to master this skill:
👉 Choose your words carefully. Clearly stating the rule helps children understand what is expected of them.
👉 Pay attention to your facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice. Communicating expectations in a neutral way helps children receive your message openly, rather than as a threat.
👉 Empathize with your children and kindly offer help. This strengthens your connection and fosters collaboration, showing your children that you care about them and are on their side.