Your 2-year-old is on the floor, banging her fists and screaming “dinnnnnner”. You think. . . ‘Why can’t she just wait quietly?’
🕐 Waiting. It’s tough for little ones, especially after a long day.
You know what else is hard?
- Changes in routines.
- Leaving the park.
- Saying “goodbye!” to Mommy/Daddy at daycare.
- Sharing with a friend.
…all of these can spark big emotions in your 2-year-old!
👉 At this age, they’re still learning how to manage those overwhelming feelings and impulses, so tantrums are bound to happen.
👉 Limited language skills make it extra frustrating when Mom or Dad just don’t “get it.” Your child can’t say, “I’m upset that you told me to go back to bed when I just wanted a cuddle!”
👉 Testing limits is how 2-year-olds learn boundaries. And yes, with those boundaries come meltdowns and push-back.
Remember, a toddler’s brain is still developing, and impulse control is out of reach right now. Knowing this can make it easier to handle those tough moments—your toddler isn’t trying to drive you nuts!